Disclaimer:
This publication is an exercise of my First Amendment rights to speak publicly about the abuse I have experienced and the systemic failures of the legal system to protect me. All content presented is based on public records, personal experience, and evidence lawfully obtained, and is intended to expose misconduct and seek accountability.
This Is My Abuser.
Her name is Cindy Hetzer. She’s my ex. The mother of our two sons — she is a high-conflict narcissist and domestic abuser.
This website is a record of what she’s done, who helped her, and how the system meant to protect victims like me completely failed.
- These Are Her Enablers
Let’s be clear — Cindy Hetzer didn’t pull this off by herself. Here are the people who stood by her, backed her up, or turned a blind eye:
Judge Sarah Wall, and Judge C. Michael Johnson: Two judges in Georgia who ignored facts, violated due process, and enforced protective orders based on lies. They let her weaponize the law and did so because of bias.
James and Ana Rockefeller (Rockefeller Law Center): Attorneys who filed false reports, protected a liar, and twisted the legal process to hurt me.
Deputies Rios, Hunter and others at the Bleckley County Sheriff’s Office: When I tried to file a complaint, they told me to “move” or “stop being seen with other women.” That’s not protection — that’s victim-blaming.
St. Patrick’s Catholic Church, Mary Pangborn, Father Eric Filmer, and the Diocese of Savannah: Instead of supporting a father’s right to worship with his children, they backed Cindy’s interference. They chose to gaslight, and lie.
These Are Our Children
I love my sons. I have fought for them — in court, in counseling, and through chaos — while Cindy has used them as pawns.
She’s tried to erase me from their lives:
She weaponized phone calls and parenting schedules.
She tried to block me from being involved in their religious upbringing.
She’s used false reports, courtroom lies, and manipulation to alienate me.
The Other Children
She ignores the impact of her abuse on our children. She's aware of it, just indifferent to it.
Laurel Hetzer
Twice she has coerced her 16 year-old daughter to make false statements to law enforcement.
3 of our Sons
As a direct result of her escalating abuse and conflict, three boys are now undergoing mental health counseling.
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This video shows Cindy Hetzer using aggression and intimidation during a routine custody exchange. Her behavior escalates when she realizes she’s being recorded, and she later follows up with a false accusation.
Cindy Hetzer once again using intimidation and aggression in an attempt to bait me into a reaction.
After 4-year-old Oskar runs away and goes to my house, nearly an hour passes and Cindy negligently doesn’t know he’s missing. When the Deputy informs her, she falsely accuses me of kidnapping Oskar.